Indian Lilliputs

Its like a Heavy Waterfall Just trying to occupy entire folder Its not cute Its like mini weapon Its nature is awkward Attributes are monsters Links are troublesome All zones in one single system Confusing one and all Virus Brotherhood is its pet name Dont try to store forever Its known as offensive dramatist Acting smart to make its own network We are resources To its extramile Its havoc In the world of Cyberyard Just delete it © Babu Koilada

My dear colleagues of H**** (The Organization which i am working now)

(This open letter is to my colleagues after resigning my job)

Some people take up jobs to remain satisfy with them because they don't know their capabilities . But, actually we should do something to gain the real confidence.

Decisions are never 'right' or 'wrong', its the outcome which may be either positive or negative. But you can't sit on the fence, you have to weigh the pros and cons and make decisions in life. That is an essential quality for every entrepreneur!

Mistakes do happen . I have also made mistakes and sure i am going to learn from them. Some people may be with us and some may not. But, we should be driven by our own passion.

We should not be driven only by the monetary value. It comes and then goes: if your are successful it keeps increasing. This was my passion and sure i will be working towards it. I have not been driven by any other force.

I have not been driven by any other force.

I don't need a fancy degree or a rich daddy to dream big and make it happen. It's all in my head, my heart and my hands.

Yours lovingly,

Babu Koilada

(Most of the statements in this letter are taken from Rashmi Bansal's book "Connect the dots")

Open letter to my first ever lovable friend whom i missed for several years published in web magazine few years ago

I am asking the world by raising a voice "what is the meaning of real friendship?"

This story is not about the borders or cultures. It is the story of Real Friendship.

I can say I’m net savvy but only till the extent of chatting with girls.

The thorough passion for acquiring world famous poetry helped me a lot in this particular aspect (if I might add). I am a student from India and at the beginning of my college days I really didn’t know what to do with internet when our batch had a new broadband connection.

I am the only guy who used to be calm and sedate in the class.

Due to high pressure in studies I use to be lonely.

I used to think about the society and world.

When I got a good friend named Arianna Introna from Italy through cyberfriends.com, my mindset totally changed.

Her feelings matched with mine; her thoughts reciprocated mine.

Her words used to motivate me.

Within a few days, we became good friends.

Though I am not a good poet, I am very good at gathering world famous poetry.

My inspirations from palm beach use to make my thoughts fly.

She used to share each and every thought with me.

We shared our email ids and postal addresses.

We use to write each other letters and mails.

For a while, I thought she is the best thing that ever happened to me.

She promised me to be my good friend forever.

I can’t explain Arianna...she is god according to me.

She is one of the most sacred beings I had ever seen.

She is also a good student of music.

As with all great relationships, problems didn’t spare us.

She used to write me long emails and I used to respond with small quotes.

After some days she sent me a mail saying that she will be moving to Scotland to study music.

I couldn’t be more happy for her.

But to my astonishment, she ended our correspondence after moving.

I thought she might be busy or must have had problems of her own.

It is three years now and I am really sad to say (to accept for myself even) that I really lost a good friend. I don’t know the reason behind this.

Not a minute clue.

She might be married.

I thought for a while...she may have forgotten me.

But my dear Arianna...I am not going to forget you ever.

The promises you made me and the motivation you gave me through our friendship will always be remembered.

Do you know I am still praying for you everyday?

When ever I go to Palm Beach, I think about our friendship.

I do not know where are you are or what you are doing.

But I will remember you till my last breath.

There is something more beautiful in this world than love, family and internal relationships.

It is this sacred concept called friendship which makes your life worthwhile.

So…my dear Arianna, if you are still pursuing graduation in Scotland and as per god’s wish if you see this article, it is enough for me. But if you do not wish to resume our correspondence, I will understand. As a great man once said "Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for a while and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same”. You are the latter.

—With love

Babu.Koilada

(Two years later, after getting this article published in web magazine called "NEWSWORTHY" i met Arianna recently in FACEBOOK unexpectedly something after 4 years of the actual break up story )

I dont know who is GOD.
Because i've never seen him.
But i know people worship god.
They also say he's omnipresent.
But i am not too intelligent to trust those words.
I am just common man.
And i also think the people whom i am working with and living in the society are also as common as me.
So why i need to trust them.
I dont know why most of the people ask many things to GOD as such he was a banker to give loans or was a police officer to rescue them.
Here lots and lots of confusion used to arise in my mind.
So..at last i decided why should'nt i become GOD to myself.
So..i can worship myself and can always create what i want with my natural style and achieve with my willpower.
And at last i understood people with willpower can become GODs to themselves and can achieve anything in life
And people who worship GOD and trying to run away from there responsibilites can become common people as they want in the world of success and depend upon other common people
to gain other common things in life...




With this entire paragraph at last i believe...


I AM GOD TO MYSELF AND NO ONE CAN BEAT ME IN THIS WORLD OF SUCCESS..

-Babu Koilada




:) :) :)

(Open letter to Indian Supporters of Slut Walk)
(Open letter to Indian Supporters of Slut Walk) -I SUPPORT SLUT WALK CAMPAIGNS BUT.....LETS ALSO SAVE SOCIAL ETHICS

Dear friends,

Nowadays, the topics regarding "SLUT WALK" and campaigns regarding them are being widespread almost each and every part of the world. After reading the entire story regarding Umang Sabarwal who started campaign named "Slutwalk Delhi" i thought for a moment to write my views regarding this slut walk campaign. In my opinion, it was a good start to begin these type of campaigns protesting something else when the things are really going worse. I agree with the people who are quite against the people who are comparing innocent girls with sluts. But for a while, its a shattering experience. Previously, in many news articles we have already read and heard about protests regarding eveteasings and raggings etc., in colleges as well as in public. Nowadays, in the same way , most of the girls and women are trying to deject themselves by showing their unhappiness towards society as well as people who are comparing them with sluts.

But i need to say in this particular time, does people really change their mindset and dehumanized behavior after getting protested by these type of campaigns. These campaigns started from many colleges as well as from social networking sites. The campaigns said the comments made by the people are rather offensive and degrading women where they are even getting criticized by public and compared with sluts when they wear westernized dresses, skirts and high heels in public.

Today, most of the Indian youth are following cosmopolitan cultures and are getting highly influenced by cosmopolitan atmospheres. So, its something like tasting new culture and moreover some part of the youth are also getting addicted to the western culture. If wearing western dresses and getting flirted in public is the concept if we can say is migrated from other countries. Hence, lots of unethical concepts and themes are also been and already being migrated from other western countires and trying their level best to be part of our culture. Off course, this culture is also demanding flirting girls and dating with them in many areas in uncivilized manner. In these circumstances, does these campaigns really work. I need to say nowadays culture is getting ruined and some of the people are also getting ruined effective with that type of culture.

That's the same thing happening in our society from decades. And its nothing worse than the situations arise when girls are treated in the society like showcase dolls and getting foisted when they are sold to Arab Shaikhs in areas like Hyderabad for the purpose of flesh trade. However, i can also say it is also not that much worse than the situation that occur when innocent girls being raped in tribal areas by government officials itself.

Then, whats the exact point of these campaigns. Yes, girls should have liberal thoughts. They can follow cosmopolitan cultures. They can even wear what they want and they also need to be respected by the people in the society wherever they go and what ever they do.

Is this the exact point of view? And if it is the exact point then we we also need to think for a moment about social ethics and civic sense? Do we think we still have these things in society. Some people (both boys as well as girls) behave in such a way in public that they can cross all limits and ethics. Now, in these type of situations people are in dilemma. Whom we need to support? To the society which was affected or to the society which was going to be affected ?

However, I support these campaigns which are protesting something which is against social ethics. But, at the same time i also want to suggest the people not to support any mindset which can ruin society, culture or civic sense.

I SUPPORT SLUT WALK CAMPAIGNS...BUT LETS ALSO SAVE SOCIAL ETHICS...

with regards

-Babu Koilada